Caregiving can be challenging, yet it is the opportunity to enhance another person’s daily life with enduring love and compassion. It can give you deep fulfillment and a sense of purpose.

Support Network

I started to realize the value of a strong support network during the four surgeries I underwent in four years, especially while facing them alone without a spouse. The struggle was particularly intense during the first week. However, the true impact of support became evident when my parents required assistance. The situation was confusing, challenging and prolonged, stretching over several years. Without my siblings to help with their care, I believe I would have crashed and burned trying to balancing a job, family, and my own life along with theirs.

Caregiver Fatigue

It’s a real thing. I found statics at the AARP website (a power house of information that is wonderful, comprehensive and free.) that Caregiver fatigue affects over 60 percent of caregivers. So how do you show support to a caregiver? Everyone’s situation is different so inquiring about ways you can assist them is best. They benefit from empathy, they appreciate an extra pair of hands, errand assistance, a homemade meal, a couple of hours to get away or just little old you for company to help lighten that feeling of isolation. You can also consider giving a gift certificate for a service like Flying Solo.

I have also come to realize that being a good listener is just as important as attempting to solve problems you see. They are alone most of the time and miss someone to converse with, to laugh with or to talk about the news headlines -it’s just as valuable as tidying up their home.

I have experienced multiple times the warmth when giving or receiving a heartfelt thank you to show how much someone’s efforts have made life a little brighter. It is something you will keep with you forever. Try it and see if your step is lighter, your smile is quicker and your heart is happier.